Wife’s Diary:
Tonight, I thought Tom was acting weird
We had made plans to meet at a nice restaurant for dinner
I was shopping with my friends all day long; and I was a little late for our date.
Conversation wasn’t flowing, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late; but he made no comment on it
So I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk
He agreed, but he didn’t say much
I asked him what was wrong; He said, ‘Nothing.’ I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset..
He said he wasn’t upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it
On the way home, I told him that I loved him
He smiled slightly, and kept driving
I can’t explain his behavior I don’t know why he didn’t say, ‘I love you, too.’
When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore
He just sat there quietly, and watched TV
He continued to seem distant and absent
Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed
About 15 minutes later, he came to bed
But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else.
He fell asleep – I cried
I don’t know what to do
I’m almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else.
My life is a disaster.
Husband’s Diary:
Mower won’t start, can’t figure out why.